Chapter 12 · The Yoga of Devotion · Krishna said
Bhagavad Gita 12.15 — Neither troubles nor troubled
यस्मान्नोद्विजते लोको लोकान्नोद्विजते च यः। हर्षामर्षभयोद्वेगैर्मुक्तो यः स च मे प्रियः ॥
yasmānnodvijate loko lokānnodvijate ca yaḥ | harṣāmarṣabhayodvegairmukto yaḥ sa ca me priyaḥ ||
Meaning
One who causes no distress to the world and is not disturbed by the world, who is free from excitement, envy, fear and anxiety — such a person is dear to me.
In today's life
Aim to be someone whose presence never makes others uneasy, and who does not let others shake your calm.